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31 Creative Ways To Love And Encourage Him & Her

In 31 Creative Ways To Love And Encourage Him & Her, Jefferson & Alyssa Bethke lay out simple ways to bring the beauty, joy, and vibrancy back to a relationship. Each day brings a new adventure that can range from being serious to whimsical to humorous.

Every day covers one theme for the day that is crucial to a healthy and vibrant relationship (service, forgiveness, laughter, prayer, adventure, and more). There is a section on why that theme is important to any relationship, and the section ends with a specific challenge to put that theme into action. There is also journal space included in each day to record thoughts, memories, and details of the day. Lastly, please note that the girl’s and the guy’s books are different and have different themes and days.

Take this one month journey with your spouse or significant other and come out the other side with a stronger and more healthy relationship than before.

More Than a Book

Going through 31 Creative Ways To Love And Encourage Him & Her with your significant other will:

  • Bring more joy to your relationship.
  • Give you tools and practical ways to serve him or her.
  • Spark love, fun, and adventure back into the relationship.
  • Teach you about one another.
  • Create lasting memories.
  • Help you develop the language to grow in healthy communication.

What People Are Saying

“Being married 20+ years I’ve learned that one of the the best things you can do for your marriage is to wake up every day looking to serve and love your spouse well. Sometimes it’s the smallest and most simple things, done day by day, that keep a marriage full of life, love, and strength. Jeff & Alyssa’s 31 Day books do exactly that and are a wonderful resource to help marriages of all ages grow closer together.”
Craig Groeschel, Pastor of LifeChurch
“Being intentional leads to discovering incredible. It’s true for just about any pursuit but it’s the absolute secret sauce for lasting relationships. I’m so thankful Jefferson and Alyssa are helping all couples, new and seasoned, discover the creative and transformative power of intentional love by giving us such an amazing resource like 31 Creative Ways To Love and Encourage Him & Her.”
Lysa TerKeurst,#1 New York Times Best Selling Author of Uninvited

“Wow! These books are a fantastic way to bring more fun,
meaning, and intention of your relationship.
You’re going to love them!

Drs. Les & Leslie Parrott, #1 New York Times bestselling authors of Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts
“As John Mayer once said, “love is a verb.” He is so right. Creating a happy, healthy, love-filled marriage is all about showing your spouse love and not just simply relying on a feeling. Jefferson and Alyssa’s 31 Ways To Love and Encourage Him & Her books are a great resource for any married couple who is looking for creative ways to love their spouse better while keeping the relationship centered on Jesus.”
Sean Lowe, ABC’s The Bachelor and NYT Best Selling Author
“From the moment Zac and I sat across the table from Jefferson and Alyssa we could not believe their wisdom. They are clear on the most important things in life. God is real and dear to them and family and friends are the center of the way that express God’s love to the world. They are people we learn from and we know you will too by picking up 31 Creative Ways To Love And Encourage Him & Her.”
Jennie Allen, Founder of IF:Gathering
Meet Jeff and Alyssa
Jeff and Alyssa Bethke have been married for a couple of years and have a daughter who is 1 years old. Jeff and Alyssa blog, vlog and create cool videos on Youtube. They live in Hawaii. Jefferson Bethke burst into the cultural conversation in 2012 with a passionate, provocative poem titled “Why I Hate Religion, But Love Jesus.” The 4-minute video literally became an overnight sensation, with 7 million YouTube views in its first 48 hours (and 25+ million in a year). The message blew up on social-media, triggering an avalanche of responses running the gamut from encouraged to enraged.
Purchase Options
31 Creative Ways
U.S. Book Bundle
$29.99 USD


31 Creative Ways comes with 2 paperback books in the mail
Watch 4 special videos from the authors on computer or mobile
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Dedicated Support Center
31 Creative Ways +
12 Essential Ways
$52.99 USD


31 Creative Ways (2 books)
Love That Lasts (2 guidebooks)
Watch 4 special videos from the authors on computer or mobile
Lifetime Access
Dedicated Support Center
31 Creative Ways
U.S. Book Bundle Dating Editions
U.S. Book Bundle Military Editions
$29.99 USD


31 Creative Ways (2 books)
Lifetime Access
Dedicated Support Center
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